i do hope that i have given everyone enough time between posts to partially or fully integrate each point. Also you can feel free to read these blogs at your convience, as i will not be taking them down. Part 3 of this series will cover the art of allowing. the art of allowing, i feel, is one of the most important points in utilizing the law of attraction. The art of allowing is the ability to let go control of other people and the choices they make. Sometimes when a friend makes a choice we dont agree with, it can cause us obvious pain. For in disagreeing with our friends decision, we have focused on pushing away their choice so much that we have started to manfested it for ourselves. when we start to accept the fact that everyone can make their own choices and they do not have to effect us, peace almost immediately will descend on you. i know in my own personal life i have felt great sadness for friends who cannot see what they are doing to themselves by continually repeating the same patterns over and over. In trying to get these friends to see what they are doing, i would sometimes cause more harm than good, because they werent ready to deal with the reality of their choices. Once i started to let go of trying to control my friends and loved ones choices, trusting in their learning process and the Divine, i saw that i was more free to pay attention to my own life and my own choices and how owning my actions and only my actions could bring me closer to everything ive always wanted. It basically breaks down to this. We are all one, but we all have our own path we are creating for ourself whether conciously or by default. When we allow ourselves to focus on our life and let go of others lives we become more free. We are all guilty in some way at some time of trying to control/manipulate someone elses life. Not necessarily maliciously, but mostly because we care and we see the outcome of there choice as potentially unpleasant or bad, because we have been down that path and are trying to help them avoid the mistakes we made. In life, we are all entitled to our mistakes and allowing other to experience those mistakes without interferring can be beneficial on the whole of everyones conciousness. The art of allowing takes time to master and i suggest trying everyday to be concious of the need to fix others or steer them out of their choices. Im not saying if you see someone in clear and present physical danger or harm to just sit back and let it happen, please do not think i am. This is merely another exercise in really being present in your own life and being an example for others to be present in their own lives as well. When we can all be real with ourselves and take responsibilty for our actions we will all be free.